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We have many resources available for coaches, therapists, and mental health professionals working with clients to boost their hopeful expectations of the future and other related positive emotions.
Our Emotional Intelligence Masterclass© is a six-module emotional intelligence training program for helping professionals to help clients’ improve their access to key emotions such as hope.
Our free resources can support goal-directed agency and planning:
- Willingness, Goals, and Action Plan
Anticipating obstacles can help clients learn to deal with them when they arise.
- Problem-solving
Use this helpful worksheet with clients to clearly state a goal and the problems that stand in their way.
- If-then Planning Worksheet
Clients can visualize what could go wrong in the future and plan how to handle it.
A highly recommended read is our article: How to Design a Hopeful Digital Environment, which offers practical advice of how to turn digital overwhelm into a healthier and more hopeful environment.
More extensive versions of the following tools are available with a subscription to the Positive Psychology Toolkit©, but they are described briefly below:
- A Letter From Your Best Day to Your Bad Days
Recalling positive memories can be a positive way to boost hope for the future. Try out the following exercise involving writing letters from your best days to inform your worst ones:
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- Step one – Take time to write a letter to yourself on a particularly good day.
- Step two – Answer the following prompts to offer a message of support and kindness for a difficult time:
I know that you are likely to forget this on the bad days, but something that you should keep in mind is …
You should remember the things you find helpful in times like this. The activities that might help you now are …
Before you finish reading this letter, remember what makes you feel more hopeful. Something that may give you hope right now is …
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- Step three – Reflect on how it felt to write your letter.
- Step four – On bad days, when you read this letter, ask yourself: How did this letter make me feel more hopeful?
- Compassion-Based Motivation
Compassion is often a more powerful driver for lasting motivation than harsh criticism. Use this exercise to swap self-criticism for kind support:
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- Step one – Think of a time when you criticized yourself while hoping for positive change.
- Step two – Write down what personal characteristics you criticized and how you felt afterward.
- Step three – Now, come up with a gentler, kinder method of self-motivation. What might a loving friend or family member say to you?
- Step four – How might such a compassionate way of talking to yourself boost your chance of success?
If you want to cultivate a mindset to envision a better future and take purposeful steps toward it, consider this collection of 17 science-backed cultivating hope exercises. Use them to make a measurable impact in coaching sessions, therapy work, workshops, and group interventions.
A Take-Home Message
We may all feel low in hope at times. Life can be difficult. The unexpected can leave us thinking that our troubles will not end or that we will fail to reach our hoped-for positive outcomes.
Psychological theory and research suggest that this needn’t be the case. Hope is not fixed.
The message behind hope theory is that hope is a motivational force that requires goal-directed energy (agency) and the ability to generate multiple strategies for achieving those goals (pathway-thinking; Snyder, 2000).
Crucially, it is not simply a static, immovable personality trait. Hope forms part of a process that can be nurtured using the right strategies, mindset, and practice.
While hope theory has existed for decades, it continues to evolve. Research suggests incorporating a more profound sense of meaning into our actions and strengthening our social connections (Colla et al., 2022).
Mental health practitioners can embrace hope theory to increase the chance of positive outcomes and build flourishing lives for their clients.
They can successfully combine the approach with other positive psychology, cognitive behavioral therapy, and acceptance commitment therapy interventions to foster resilience, adaptive thinking, and improved psychological wellbeing across multiple life domains.
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